penis envy

Got an interesting comment on one of my entries, so I'd like to talk about it a bit.

"You shouldn't worry about your penis being small, it is very common for subs to have a small penis it seems, maybe it is related to our feelings of submission?"

I'd like to talk about several aspects of this. First of all, I've yet to receive a negative comment on my smallness. I guess the closest thing I got to a negative comment was in the first session with other guys, Master R ordered someone to suck my dick, and the guy (I'm pretty sure it was Luke!) said "oh, but it's so small!" I didn't talk about this to him, but I'm pretty sure he thinks it's actually cute that I'm small.

When I told Master R I'm self-concious about my smallness, he said I shouldn't worry about it, and said I acually had one of the prettiest dicks he's ever seen. I was somewhat offended by this actually, in a "don't say things you don't really mean just to be nice" way, but he said he was serious. 

Other comments were also supportive. A dom who was interested in a daddy/boy relationship told me it would actually be an advantage for me because it makes me more "boy". And the first guy I ever had sex with called it "small but cute" and said he loved watching it grow and shrink.

Anyway - despite all of that, I'm still somewhat embarrassed about it, and it's probably one of the reasons why I'm still a bit shy sexually. I try not to worry about it too much, but that's easier said than done. 

As for it being related to my submissive feelings - yes and no. I had submissive feelings long before I realised my penis is smaller than average. But I suppose when I'm in the right mood, it does help to get in a submissive mindset. I mean, it's only normal that the guy with the small penis has to serve the guy with a large(r) dick, right? 

Of course I can only speak for myself here. It's interesting to think about though, and I want to pass on the question to my readers: is your dick size an issue in your dom/sub relationship? And if you're a sub, do you have a small penis, and are your submissive feelings related to your penis size? 

In the end, I think that if you're truly a sub, your penis size shouldn't concern you, all you have to worry about is pleasing your dom/master. Again, easier said than done of course, but I think it's the best attitude you can have about this.