2012

I hope you will all have a good 2012!

I don't do any new years resolutions, I usually forget about them after 4 weeks or so.
I do have a couple of ideas about things to do in the near future. Nothing that exciting really, just some vague plans.
I miss what I'd like to call a "partner in crime", a friend who's also into kinky stuff, someone who I can talk with and play with. It doesn't have to be a boyfriend or anything, just someone I can have kinky fun with, without necessarily having a fixed dom/sub or master/slave dynamic. It would be nice to meet someone like that this year.

As for the blog, I'm pretty happy with the way it is now. Expect about 5-10 updates a month, also depending on how much I get to "play". Although recently I've become increasingly worried about my (and other people's) privacy, and I'll probably post less pics, and stop posting pictures of sessions with other people. I have statcounter.com running on this blog as well, and it seems people are downloading pics, especially the ones from the session with other slaves. First of all, it's not nice downloading them without asking me for permission, and secondly, I no longer have any control over the pictures when they're downloaded, some might use them on other sites, claiming it's their picture. I know that happens.

So, for future reference, if you want to download my pictures, ask me, I'll probably say yes, on the condition that they stay on your harddrive and you don't upload them on another site. Of course, I have no control over that either, so I'll have to depend on the kindness of strangers! So really, the only safe solution is to not share my pictures anymore. Besides, it's not like I'm a porn star or anything, I don't need to show off in any way. The pictures I shared so far were made by the master I was with for his and my pleasure, so we can look at the pictures and think about the good times we had. I only share them because, you know what they say, a picture says more than a thousand words. So instead of a long text-only entry about a session, I make a short entry with some text and some pictures. It's pure laziness on my part. And, okay, I admit, it's also part exhibitionism, and part narcissism. Most of my pictures are on flickr as well, and it's always nice getting comments like "oh wow that looks hot!" and "I wish that was me!", also because comments like that make me realise I'm living out (some of my) fantasies, and that I am in fact a very lucky boy.

Still blog-related:
blog views in november: 678
blog views in december: 679
+1, what an improvement! I thought it was funny. I don't really care about how many views I get, but I'm addicted to reading/interpreting stats, so I check the stats page almost daily. It's pretty interesting sometimes. Like, today I got a visit from someone who lives in Sudan, and I still get more views from Saudi Arabia than I get from Australia.  And people still mainly use Internet Explorer. C'mon people, switch to Chrome! :P

In my next update, I'm going to talk about...jealousy!

edit: you can always ask me questions through formspring: http://www.formspring.me/rauberx , I'll try to answer them as soon as possible. I always appreciate questions, comments, etc., don't be shy. In any case, thanks for reading my blog.